Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Rod's Ski Accident 3-12-11

This is just a warning that this blog post will have an extremely graphic picture of Rod's leg after his accident. So beware. Read at your own risk.

Last Saturday I received a phone call from Rod saying that I should remain calm but something had happened and I should not panic. My first thought was that something had happened to Alex and my blood just drained from my face. I felt sick to my stomach right away. I had to sit down to receive the news.

Rod continued telling me that he had collided with his friend Jayson up in Sundance where they went skiing for an afternoon. They had NOT raced down the hill 50-60 miles per hour but somehow were going that fast and collided with each other.

Rod said that he had a big gash on his right thigh that looked pretty bad. It wasn't life threatening but he was going to be life flighted out of Sundance. Hospital destination still to be decided.

When you hear "Life Flight", the first thought comes to your mind that IT IS life threatening. Rod hung up and said that he would call back. In the mean time I called Whitney and asked her to come get me and take me to the hospital.

Rod called back and said that he would be flown to the University of Utah Hospital in Salt Lake City. At this time Whitney and Craig had arrived and we went to pick up Alex from the mouth of the Provo Canyon where Jayson dropped him off. Surprisingly nothing had happened to Jayson. Whitney, Alex and I headed to Salt Lake while Craig went to pick up our car from Sundance.


Rod's self portrait in the Life Flight helicopter on the way to the hospital.


Lovely scenery from the helicopter.


Rod's knee is braced during the flight


Hi there!


Life Flight helicopter landed to U of U hospital


This is how we found Rod in the hospital Emergency Room. Dazed and somewhat drugged up already. Not a lot of blood came out of the gash. Thank goodness.


Rod's knee all wrapped up


Ouch! 8 inch gash all the way to the bone. No broken bones. The joint capsule was affected and he had to have surgery so the capsule could be flushed out from potential bacteria. Dr. Tashjian was called in to perform the surgery.


Rod's bloody ski pants. When he got to the ER, they cut his pants off of him. He threated the nurses not to cut his $450 jacket. They didn't.

Jayson and Jennilynn came to see Rod in the ER. Ken Brailsford also came and Jayson and Ken were able to give Rod a priesthood blessing in which he was promised that he would get a complete and full function of the leg back and that Heavenly Father wanted him to learn something from this experience and Rod would need to find out what it was.

We waited in the Surgical Waiting room on the 3rd floor while the 45 minute surgery took place.


Alex watching TV while waiting for his dad to get out of surgery. Alex was so brave throughout the whole thing. He saw the accident happen and he was a great help to Rod.


Whitney is talking with Craig who drove up on Saturday night to bring me our car. Whitney was such a rock and such a great help to me. I just loved how calm she stayed and was such a great help to Rod as well.


Craig, Alex, Megan and Kendall are waiting for Rod in his hospital room. Megan and Kendall brought me fruit because I didn't want to eat the hospital food. They also provided us with a lot of entertainment. Such great people.


Rod is drugged up after his surgery and sleeping.


Wish I was able to sleep. I slept maybe an hour. Others went home but I stayed and slept on a small couch in the room. Luckily it was daylight savings time, so we had one less hour. The night seemed endless.


In the morning Rod felt better and the nurse brought him some juice and crackers before the breakfast got there.


Rod was cleared to leave after his "Physical Therapy" which was basically the physical therapist showing Rod how to use the crutches and see if he is able to walk with them.

Before we left the hospital around 1pm, Rod still had a conference call with his Zija leaders. The wheelchair guy had to wait for 5 minutes for Rod to finish the call. I think it is so funny that even with this kind of condition, Rod wanted to make sure that the leaders were okay. Nothing better than working 24/7 with gash or no gash.

We drove to Whitney's house to pick up Alex. Rod was calling all of his Zija leaders to make sure that they were okay and sharing his skiing story. Obviously he was totally drugged up and sleepy.


Alex and I helped Rod to put his shoes on.


The following day, Monday, I took Rod walking around our neighborhood. Need to get the man walking so he will heal properly.
What a weekend. But Rod is really doing so well. He ran 10 miles before he went skiing on Saturday so I think that might be the reason why with almost no pain, he is doing remarkably well.



Monday, March 7, 2011

I Need a Break, too!

It seems that I'm the only one in our family who doesn't get a break from the every day, mundane life. Rod travels the world and when he comes home, he goes on a golfing vacation. Alex...he goes skiing with his friends. Moms should get a break more often. I demand a break! I have been working hard or hardly working but still need a break from the cold winter and spring that is not here yet.


Rod and Craig golfing in Mesquite last week. Yep, it was mid 70s there. While they were there, it was rainy and crappy weather here. Me bitter? Just a little bit.


Alex and Hunter went skiing on Saturday up in Sundance. They had a great time. I didn't want to go skiing because it was a cloudy day. If you know me, Sunny Marj doesn't ski on a cloudy day.

I'm hoping to go skiing this Saturday with the family. It better be a sunny day.

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Steve and Katie's birthday bowling

Last night we went to celebrate Steve and Katie's birthdays. Steve's was on Saturday and Katie's was yesterday. Katie wanted to go bowling so we went to Fat Cats to do just that.


Katie and Steve...the birthday girl and boy


Katie bowling. I especially like the little girl on the next lane who is bowling upside down and backwards.


I'm trying my best to beat the boys. No such luck.


Maya and her grandma Katie


Carsen means business with this bowling ball. He beat me, barely, but I must say that he used bumbers. So clearly I was the winner.


Rod, the big winner of the night, is showing his mad bowling skills.


Maya posing before her bowling.


Alex is holding the bowling ball like it was a basketball.


Taylor took it easy and didn't hardly bowl at all. When he did, he did it with his left hand.


Heather and her daughter Maya


Yes, I just got a strike. How can you tell?


Rod is ready to bowl some more.


at 9pm the glow-in-the-dark bowling started. How psychedelic and fun.

Happy 57th and 55th birthday Steve and Katie. What a fun night.


Sweethearts Dance-Revisited


Kaitlynn and Alex at the Sweethearts Dance


Group picture at the Dance

Thursday, February 24, 2011

MV - Lehi Basketball Game 2/23/11

Last game of the season was Mountain View against Lehi. This time Lehi beat us 48-43. Lehi actually beat all of the 3 teams, so it was a triple whammy to MV. Alex didn't play because his ankle just got better on Monday, so the coach spared him. I think Alex would have been happy to play, but such is life.

No more practices, no more games, and now we relax.

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Sweethearts' Dance 2-19-11

It is a fact of life, that when you have a boy, you don't get to see the girl all dressed up for a dance. That is the case in our lives. All I can do is fuss about Alex's tie and shirt and shoes and pants, and give last minute advice like "take the corsage and take it out of the box and then slip it over her wrist", "Be a gentleman to her at all times", "ask if she is thirsty", "ask her dad what time they would like her to be home", "shake the dad's hand", "say, hello Sir", "be very polite to the parents", "pay for everthing", "be very attentive to her"...type of things.


Alex had a good time at the dance. I'm hoping to see some pictures later on that they had taken at the school. I will post them if I ever get to see them.


The boy's growing up.

MV - Orem Basketball Game 2/18/11

Alex didn't play in the rivalry game because of his ankle, but the team beat Orem 39-37 at the buzzer.

Here is Hunter singing the National Anthem before the Varsity game (which we lost by a point)

Thursday, February 17, 2011

MV - Timpanogos Basketball Game 2/15/11

I was told that Mountain View beat Timpanogos. I don't know the score because I wasn't at the game. Why, you ask? For obvious reasons. Alex sprained his ankle on Sunday night while playing basketball with his friends at Riikka's house. The sprain is pretty bad. The trainers call it "Subluxation" or structural displacement of sorts. Alex received ultrasound treatment yesterday, and the ankle feels better now.

Alex has been wearing a walking boot since Monday morning.




That's an ugly dancing shoe if you ask me. Hopefully the ankle feels better before Saturday's Sweethearts dance.

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Pigs are Flying at our House

Alex received his answer for the Sweethearts Dance from Kaitlynn last night.


This big box was waiting outside "Alex, I'll go to the dance with you when pigs fly! Take box inside before opening".


Alex is ready to open the box.


These pink balloons flew out of the box. On the balloons, Kaitlynn had drawn on "yes" and pig faces. So cute.


There's the flying pig.


3 days until the dance.

There's going to be 6 couples going on Saturday. First they are having a day date at the laser tag place and then dinner at Gandolfo's and then to the dance. What a fun time in Alex's life.


Jana is making a wristlet corsage for Kaitlynn. I'm sure it is going to be so beautiful.

Finnish Circus at BYU

Riikka, her kids and I went to see the Finnish Circus at BYU last night. I must say that I guess I'm not artsy enough to understand what was going on. It was the weirdest entertainment I've ever attended. Riikka and I kept looking at each other wondering if we were missing something when the audience was laughing and there was nothing funny going on. Why did we have to watch ball juggling for 10 minutes straight and nothing else was going on. I can't even start to explain how strange this whole thing was. Must be Finnish humor. I didn't get it.